There is absolutely nothing wrong whatsoever with being a hopeless romantic, the kind of optimist that always looks for the best in people, especially when it comes to relationships.
At the same time, you definitely want to make sure that while your head and your heart are fluttering around in the clouds, your feet are rooted squarely here on Earth. If you’re not careful you’ll find yourself head over heels in a relationship that may or may not be so hot for you, and by the time that you wake up, it may be too late!
Here are a couple of myths that people believe about relationships, and a little bit of insightful information into the “reality” of these situations.
Let’s dive right in!
1. When you get married, your relationship will transform into everything you’ve ever wanted it to be
Look…most people are absolutely crazy when it comes to getting married, mostly because they never really think of the full long-term implications. Marriage is something to be taken lightly, and you have to be at least a little bit nuts to think that your relationship will suddenly transform after you’ve put a ring on it.
The truth is, things are going to change but it’s going to happen slowly and naturally over time. You’re going to get a lot more of what you already have after you’ve gotten married.